Mom loses 103 pounds to spite her husband and his new mistress


Being cheated on at any point in your life sucks, but being cheated on when you have just given birth to a beautiful child must be even worse. Sadly, for one woman in Houston, Texas, this was the shocking reality she was faced with.

Betsy Ayala had just given birth to a baby girl when she found texts on her husband’s phone that not only revealed that he was having an affair, but also that he and his mistress were mocking her weight.


While the majority people would go into a state of disrepair at the discovery, Ayala went down and different route and is now thankful that the whole ordeal happened.

The mother gave birth to their daughter in 2013 and at the time she weighed 265 pounds. She had been trying to shed some of her post-baby weight when she discovered the texts on her now ex-husband’s phone.

“I started in September and was doing okay until two days after Christmas, when I found out my husband was cheating on me with a co-worker,” Ayala said.


“I had been with him since I was 17 and pretty much devoted my life to our relationship and him.”

“I was devastated. I found out through some messages I read on his Facebook where they were calling me a cow and fat and just trashing me and my whole world fell apart.”

The 34-year-old mom says that she was left feeling heartbroken by the situation.

“I didn’t know what to do with myself at the time. I was still over 220 pound with a 6-month-old and everything that I had worked for had just vanished,” she said.


Happy #TransformationTuesday #111lbs ⬇️🔥🔥🔥 So many times I get asked HOW? … 2 things had to happen for my life to change. First I found Herbalife at the exact moment I needed to find something that would change my life and Second Life handed me a blow so severe I knew I had to change my life indefinitely. I could have easily sat there and did what I always did. Blamed my situation on the person who hurt me, blamed life for being unfair or even questioned god on why this was happening to me. The truth is where I was in my life was a product of many many decisions I had made in my life. The decision to stay in a relationship because I didn’t think I deserved better, the decision to eat things I shouldn’t, the decision to watch TV instead of hit the gym or work on myself, the decision to stay in a job where I wasn’t valued. Your life is a product of two things, your choices and how you respond to life when shit hits the fan. If you can master those two things you’re golden. 👑🐝❤️ #bossup ——————————————– #joinmyteam #lightthematch #alwaysinpursuit #relentless #fitmom #fitchick #girlswholift #momswholift #fitspo #weightloss #transformation #fueledbyherbalife #boss #mommymakeover #weightlosstransformation #beforeandafter #Herbalife #herbalife24

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But rather than fall into a pit of depression, Ayala began to transform her life. She started cutting out sugary snacks and started working out with her sisters, doing Zumba classes and channelling her frustrations through the gym.

A few years down the line and Ayala has lost 103 pounds and is now a wellness coach for others who are trying to lose weight. The mom feels like the affair was a blessing in disguise and is pleased that the whole thing happened.

“Now I honestly feel that what he did was a blessing because otherwise, I would have been the way I was forever.”

“I prayed all the time for my life to change and my prayers were answered, just maybe not in the way I envisioned, but I got a second shot at a fresh start and I’m grateful for that.”


“I would cry after every workout and it was then that I decided that this would not define me and I was going to change for me and for my daughter. I wanted her to be proud of her mom and I wanted to be an example for her,” she said.

She says that she is now hoping to transfer her love of working out to her children, saying that a passion for exercise is not something she had as a child.

“I was always the chubby kid,” she said.


#TransformationTuesday ❤️ Normally I would post a before and after but instead I’m going to indulge you with some of the most important things I’ve learned in the last couple years 1. Things don’t happen to you they happen for you. 2. Life is unfair but it’s fair because it’s unfair to everyone even those who look like they have a “perfect” life. 3. The way you address and respect yourself is the way everyone else will respect and address you. 4. Never let your loyalty make a fool of you. It’s ok to love and be loyal but never at your own expense. 5. You don’t lose people, people lose you. Their loss move on and on to the next thing … Last but not least 6. My heart is always at ease knowing that was is meant for me will never miss me and what misses me was never meant for me. 👑🐝❤️💋 #queenb #lovethelofeyoulive #livethelifeyoulove

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“I never played sports or wanted to take in physical activity because I was overweight. I did get bullied in school and got picked on. I think for me, eating was like self-medication.”

The mom now has over 70,000 Instagram followers and has been doing the round on TV, with her recently being interviewed by Steve Harvey.


Had an amazing time on the @iamsteveharveytv Show last month … Had the opportunity to share my story with him and boy did he have a surprise for me 😂 Met this handsome gentleman @macrobinsonofficial and he couldn’t have been sweeter. The segment airs on Monday February 13th 3:00 Central … Set your DVR if you want to see why we’re cracking up! ——————————————- #steveharvey #lightthematch #alwaysinpursuit #noquitters #joinmyteam #Herbalife #herbalife24 #queenb #getfitnowaskmehow #relentless #fitmom #fitchick #girlswholift #momswholift #motivation #noexcuses #bestlifeever #consistency #fitness #fitspo #weightloss #transformation #bodyafterbaby #wellnesscoach #fueledbyherbalife #boss #mommymakeover #weightlosstransformation #beforeandafter

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“I’m a completely different person both on the inside and outside because of my outlook on everything. I was always very negative and had a chip on my shoulder because I was unhappy with me. I’m happier, I’m confident and most of all I’m positive,” she said.

Ayala’s show of strength proves that, with the mindset, it’s more than possible to make the best out of awful situations. Good on her!